When It Feels Like Everything Is Falling Apart

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Are you ready, ready to release internal pain to find confidence, clarity and direction for your future, to live a life of meaning, fulfillment and contribution to trust your intuition again, but something's been holding you back, you've come to the right place. Welcome. I'm a Ian Hawkins, the host and founder of The Grief Code podcast. Together, let's heal your unresolved or unknown grief by unlocking your grief code. As you tune into each episode, you will receive insight into your own grief, how to eliminate it and what to do next. Before we start by one request, if any new insights or awareness land with you during this episode, please send me an email at info at the Ian Hawkins coaching.com. And let me know what you found. I know the power of this word, I love to hear the impact these conversations have. Okay, let's get into it.

Sometimes in life, it feels like everything's falling apart. If you shift your thinking, you'll see that what's actually happening is everything falling into place. If you fight it, and try and control the external situation, you'll only slow things down. So if you've put out to the universe, what it is that you want, you've asked for changes. You've allowed your unconscious mind to have a clear focus on what you want. And you've taken action, then sometimes things need to clear out of your way, space needs to be created. And it can feel like everything's falling apart. If you just remind yourself that actually things are falling into place. Because when you're on that path of growth, and you keep moving forward, and you keep shifting old beliefs. And it cannot has to fall into place. People and things and situations that you no longer need in your life, I've been cleared out of your way to make room for what is the truly one for what your heart and soul has always known that you need. Love the quote from Steve Jobs have probably referenced and referenced that before from his Stanford address. He cannot connect the dots looking forward, you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something, your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down. And he's made all the difference in my life. I love that. Because you can so easily join those dots looking back. And then you realize, oh, wow, that needed to happen. And that needed to happen and that needed to happen. So I just want to remind you, you are on the right path, you are doing the right thing, you are taking the right steps. And things are unfolding for your highest good even if sometimes it doesn't feel like now, I reckon Steve Jobs got it slightly wrong. Because you can connect the dots looking forward. You just can't control the dots. There are certain things that you can see that will make sense. And you'll be able to navigate with a with a knowing of what's coming with your call that psychic ability, or just your own intuition, your own instincts. If you follow those instincts, it'll move you forward to where you need to be not exactly as you think they will be. Because the your intuition doesn't tell you directly to what it is. If you keep following the nudges, you'll you'll find where you need to get your land where you need to be. So you like I said you're on the right path to the future that you want to the future that you are meant to be that your heart and soul has been nudging you forward to for so many years. Be flexible enough to let go the things that you can't control and have the courage to take control of what you can control and know that you are more than capable of making it happen. Now, go out there, back yourself and make it happen. Because you'll never regret that. I promise you that.

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