Ep 371 - Why Can't People See Me For Who I Am?!

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Are you ready, ready to release internal pain to find confidence, clarity and direction for your future, to live a life of meaning, fulfillment and contribution to trust your intuition again, but something's been holding you back, you've come to the right place. Welcome. I'm a Ian Hawkins, the host and founder of The Grief Code podcast. Together, let's heal your unresolved or unknown grief by unlocking your grief code. As you tune into each episode, you will receive insight into your own grief, how to eliminate it, and what to do next. Before we start by one request, if any new insights or awareness land with you during this episode, please send me an email at info at the Ian Hawkins coaching.com. And let me know what you found. I know the power of this word, I love to hear the impact these conversations have. Okay, let's get into it.

Have you ever had that thought? Am I've done all the right things, but why can't people actually see me for who I really am. Now part of the problem is that you're showing them the wrong part of you. You might think that there's certain things that people want to see. But the problem is you've been knocked out of alignment in your thinking. And that's happened from those emotional moments from your past. You might think it's your ability to generate wealth for yourself and the most important people in your world that's most important, and you want people to see, but it's only a small snippet. You might think it's your knowledge, your wisdom, your intelligence. But I'm here to tell you that that's not your true value. You think it's how you may think it's how happy you are in your relationship. You may think it's how happy you are with and how proud you are of your children. That's only scratching the surface of who you really are. Who you really are so much more. And yet, so much simpler.

It's written in your identity. It's in that golden thread that's been consistent through your whole life. It's that magic you bring when you are being yourself. But you've forgotten who that is. If forgotten, that part of you. The essence of who you are, though, is written through your story. So it's still there, it's still happening. You've seen glimpses of. And it's the part of your story where you never want anyone else to go through what you went through. It's a part of you that shows up for others, when they most need it. It's a part of you, that sees a greater need for what you can do for what you can bring at a wider scale in the world. And it's the part of you that literally lights up when you're doing that thing. It feels amazing when you do it. And it's inspiring to others. It sets you free. There's no more freedom than just being unashamedly yourself. Absolutely doesn't keep you stuck. It flows through you when you are absolutely being your best

choice changing the world with every moment you prioritize it. That's how powerful you are. Now, if you want to unlock more of it, you have to start with clarity on what your future looks like. There's no other way. There's no shortcut. You have to get clarity. Before you can move forward or even know what it is that you need to tap into. You need to get clarity on what the future looks like. Now, full disclaimer, I'm going to be flogging my free training this week. So get used to it. And also know that if you are listening to this at a later date that that training will soon be available on my website and all as soon as it is on make sure you've got the link but keep an ear out. for that one. And actually, like I said, if you're listening to this at a later date, then it may well already be up there on the website. And that is my start now, progress your future training. And this training will set you on a whole new trajectory for your life, I can promise you that much. But the rest is up to you, you got to take the action. So join me and many others that have already signed up and joined and change your future, take the first step to change your identity. And I love to share with you what some of the previous participants have said about the training. The star training more accurately should be called the restart training. It was brilliantly easy to tap into my real intention for the day. Each day progressed to not only regain my clarity and where it headed, but also release those negative thought patterns that keep me from heading the direction naturally. I recommend take taking the start training on regular rotation. Incorporate this reset into your self care practice. So you continually recalibrate to your path of least resistance. That's from Brian and Ricketts event in Vancouver. I won't share all of them but I'll just share a couple of the examples. This next one from Derek Webster in Sydney on always listener so Hey Derek. Start the start training was excellent. It gave me the tools and the confidence to work out what was truly important to me not only the steps to achieve what you want, but how to allow it into your life and change the lens through which you view life. Another one here from Alison Rodan are highly recommend the start training it helped me reevaluate reevaluate my priorities and make meaningful changes to my daily routine. Thanks to the support and guidance of the Start team, I now feel less overwhelmed and more focused on what truly matters to me. So getting that clarity is so important. That's going to allow you to really step in and own that identity and have people seeing you for who you truly are.

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Code podcast. Thank you so much for listening. Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat, email me at info at E and Hawkins coaching.com. You can also stay connected with me by joining the Grief Code community at Ian Hawkins coaching.com forward slash The Grief Code and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal. Please subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform