But What If People Find Out

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Are you ready, ready to release internal pain to find confidence, clarity and direction for your future, to live a life of meaning, fulfillment and contribution to trust your intuition again, but something's been holding you back, you've come to the right place. Welcome. I'm a Ian Hawkins, the host and founder of The Grief Code podcast. Together, let's heal your unresolved or unknown grief by unlocking your grief code. As you tune into each episode, you will receive insight into your own grief, how to eliminate it and what to do next. Before we start by one request, if any new insights or awareness land with you during this episode, please send me an email at info at the Ian Hawkins coaching.com. And let me know what you found. I know the power of this word, I love to hear the impact these conversations have. Okay, let's get into it.

What will people think if they find out one of the biggest obstacles you'll face when unlocking your future is the opposition you'll experience from people who like you just how you are now it's nothing personal. By this, then we had a change because they're comfortable with how things are now. Listen to that, again. They don't want you to change because they're comfortable with how things are. Very comfortable. But you're not about comfort zones anymore I have done. And sure you've got some trepidation about the uncertainty that change will bring. But the alternative, continuing with the status quo, continuing on the path you're on, it's unacceptable to you. And I want to tell you something, I wish I'd been told when I was trying to change. I believe in you, you are ready. And you can do this. It done with feeling average. And you want more. And I'm here to tell you that you are capable of more, so much more. And when you start to change, remember that you're doing this for you. You're doing it for the other most important people in your family because you know they're depending on you stepping up. So it's going to take courage. But the alternative is staying where you are to keep other people happy. And take it from this recovering people pleaser. Choosing this option won't keep them happy. Their happiness is on them. And you try to please him, keep them happy. It certainly won't keep you happy. But then you already know that you already know that. Because you're not, you're not happy. And you don't want to keep doing that. You'll never regret investing in yourself to make this change. But I'll get you to ask yourself this. How much will your regret? Sorry, how much will you regret? Not taking action and staying where you are? Be able to answer this question honestly will tell you everything you need to know how much will you regret not taking action and staying where you are. And I want to remind you, that life hasn't passed you by you've still got so much more living to do. For you, for your partner, for your kids, for the other people in your world. It's not too late. It's so much living today. And we're all waiting to see you shine and show the world just what you're capable of. to back yourself. Because I'm backing you. I know you can do this. And I believe in you. And like I said I wish more people had said that to me. Wouldn't have taken so long. You can do this to go out, make it happen.

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